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  • Make fun of the so-called ‘worst college basketball team of all-time’ all you want. They have a bigger priority than winning

    Only a few minutes into his team’s first practice of the 2023-24 season, Logan Strand already had an inkling that the months ahead might be grim.

    It was glaringly obvious to the Free Lutheran Bible College men’s basketball coach that most of his roster of 18-to-21-year-olds had hardly played before.

    Strand began assessing his team with a shooting drill. One player heaved six straight corner 3-pointers off the side of the backboard.

    Strand moved onto ball handling. So many crossover dribbles bounced off feet that Strand lost count of how many balls he chased after.

    When Strand introduced a rebounding drill, he winced at confused expressions on the faces of several players. He might as well have been speaking in a foreign tongue when he asked them to close out on a shooter, turn and box out.

    “It was like, oh boy, I guess we’re going to be doing a lot of third-grade basketball stuff, the things you usually teach young kids,” Strand told Yahoo Sports. “How do we shoot the ball? How do we pass the ball? How do we set a screen?”

    For Strand’s hopelessly inexperienced team, the start of the season was like Ralph Wiggum’s “I’m in Danger” meme come to life. FLBC went 0-24 against an assortment of fellow bible colleges from Minnesota and neighboring states. Nineteen of those losses were by 40-plus points. One team outscored FLBC by more than 100. The closest FLBC came to victory was a 10-point loss to its own alumni team.

    With its leading scorers from last year’s winless team departing and no experienced newcomers arriving to fill that void, this season’s FLBC team is even more overmatched. Opponents have outscored the Conquerors 378-39 in their first four games this season. FLBC trailed 61-0 in last month’s season opener before guard Westin Jenson rattled in a 3-pointer for his team’s first points. The following night, the Conquerors faced Division III Crown College’s JV team and still lost 87-11.

    Wade Mobley watched FLBC men’s basketball not come close to winning a game last season. The FLBC president said without hesitation, “I think last year’s team would beat this year’s team by 20.”

    FLBC’s historic run of futility attracted some unwanted attention last month. Barstool Sports poked fun at the Conquerors with a story entitled “We Have Found Unquestionably the Worst College Basketball Team of All-Time.”

    What stories like that one miss, according to those at FLBC, is the school’s non-traditional purpose for competing in sports. FLBC is the rare school that proclaims that winning games is merely a secondary consideration.

    Why would a modern-day college athletic department prioritize anything above winning games, shining a spotlight on the school and generating prestige and profit? The answer lies in FLBC’s commitment to its mission.

    FLBC seeks to teach young Christians to faithfully serve Jesus Christ and to prepare students for leadership roles in their congregations and communities. The Minneapolis-area bible college’s athletics program only exists as a tool to help its 100-plus students achieve those goals.

    In a section of its website entitled “Our why behind athletics,” FLBC insists that it takes competing for championships seriously but that playing sports for the school “is about more than wins.”

    “Our students see themselves as representatives of the school and of Christ,” the school states on its website. “They find exciting parallels between working together on a sports team and working together to build up the church. Along the way, they discover a close brotherhood/sisterhood with their teammates that extends beyond the court.”

    In many ways, FLBC’s atypical approach to athletics is a byproduct of its school president’s unconventional life story. Wade Mobley grew up in a tiny speck of a town in the hills of South Dakota, the son of a single mother and an uninvolved father. Basketball became a refuge for Mobley as a teenager seeking to stay on a constructive path and avoid drugs and alcohol.

    “I shot baskets, obsessively, compulsively, clinically,” Mobley said. “That’s why I’m 52 years old and I have a knee replacement surgery scheduled for next month.”

    At the same time that Mobley developed a passion for basketball, he also began to take more interest in his faith. Friends invited him and his mom to attend a Free Lutheran church in the basement of a neighboring town’s grocery store. The love and acceptance shown to him at that church changed his life and inspired him to become a Christian at 18.

    While Mobley studied engineering physics at South Dakota State, he soon realized that he was good at it but he didn’t love it. He became his university’s only engineering physics student who dreamed of coaching college basketball.

    At first, Mobley envisioned himself coaching at the highest possible level. He found two ideal mentors, accomplished coaches who were also devout Christians. Lynn Frederick, the coach of nearby Brookings High School, hired Mobley as a volunteer assistant for two seasons. Brad Soderberg, then South Dakota State’s coach, used his connections to help Mobley land jobs working at prestigious camps across the Midwest.

    By the end of his senior year, Mobley learned that what he “enjoyed most about coaching wasn’t so much the basketball.” Mobley discovered that he possessed “this pastoral impulse wanting to invest in the lives of young people as I had been invested in.”

    What sealed Mobley’s decision to study to become a pastor was the blessing of Soderberg, by then an assistant coach under Dick Bennett at Wisconsin. In 1995, during a conversation in his office in Madison, Soderberg told Mobley, “You can always coach. You will always have a connection and I can always get you a job. But right now you have an opportunity to grow in your faith.”

    Mobley’s new path led him to what is now known as FLBC. He has spent large stretches of his adult life at FLBC’s tree-lined campus on the shores of Medicine Lake, first as a student, then as a basketball coach and athletic director and more recently as school president.

    (Courtesy of Free Lutheran Bible College)(Courtesy of Free Lutheran Bible College)
    The 2024 Free Lutheran Bible College men’s team. (Courtesy of Free Lutheran Bible College) (dds)

    The basketball program that Mobley inherited at FLBC is worlds apart from the ones he once aspired to lead. FLBC is a member of the Association of Christian College Athletics, “about as low as you can get on the college basketball hierarchy,” according to Mobley. Its league consists of bible colleges and tribal colleges in Minnesota, North Dakota and South Dakota.

    Since FLBC did not have an on-campus basketball gymnasium of its own until 2021, the school paid for its men’s and women’s teams to use facilities at Minneapolis-area high schools and colleges. Wade remembers holding practices on carpeted church basketball floors and on courts so cramped that the 3-point lines nearly touched.

    As recently as five years ago, FLBC’s basketball teams held 10 p.m. practices at a K-through-12 Christian school about a 15-minute drive away. Players would sweep up the bleachers after high school games ended, tape the college 3-point line onto the court and then practice until they were too heavy-legged and bleary-eyed to go any later.

    The top levels of college basketball are populated with players who dream of playing at a higher level, whether that’s the NBA, an overseas professional league or even just a more prestigious four-year school. It’s not like that at FLBC, where, Mobley says, “there’s nobody coming here to further their basketball career.”

    At FLBC, Strand and his fellow coaches don’t recruit by scouting high school games or AAU tournaments in search of overlooked prospects. Most of those players aren’t options, Strand said, because “they don’t fit FLBC’s mission, vision and values.” Strand’s preferred alternative is to stay in contact with community church leaders about potential players and to reach out to applicants to FLBC to gauge their interest in playing basketball.

    That approach has produced enough sporadic success to fill a small trophy case with cut nets, golden balls and engraved plaques commemorating league and tournament titles. More often than not, however, FLBC has struggled to accumulate enough talent to win more than a handful of games each season.

    In 2021, the FLBC men’s and women’s basketball programs went a combined 1-29, the women picking up the lone victory in their final game of the season. On the FLBC website, Mobley penned a blog post arguing the basketball seasons would have been a “success” even if both the men and women went winless.

    “At FLBC we don’t play basketball to win games,” Mobley wrote. “Check that: We play to win but winning isn’t why we play. We play for the leadership development and discipleship that comes with a team effort. Everyone needs to be a part of something bigger than himself or herself.”

    The past two men’s basketball seasons have shaken Mobley’s faith in his vision if only because FLBC has been so overmatched. It’s one thing to lose every game. It’s another to trail 61-0 and have even the opposing players applaud your first basket.

    What has reassured those at FLBC has been the players’ positivity and resilience. Every first-year player on last year’s team came out for the team again this season. One student who didn’t play basketball his first year at FLBC actually decided to join the team this fall.

    “At first it was pretty hard losing game after game,” second-year guard Kent Anderson said. “But I was able to shift my mindset from how can we win to how can we improve. It also helped remembering that I am ultimately playing to bring God glory and not for myself. I never had a thought of quitting because I just love playing the sport so much.”

    The enthusiasm and effort level among this year’s players, Strand says, exceeds that of any other team he has played for or coached. He admits he was feeling “a little down” after FLBC’s 85-5 season-opening loss until one of his new players approached with a fresh perspective.

    “Coach, thank you for starting me tonight,” the player told Strand. “Hearing my name announced over the loudspeakers was one of the best moments of my life.”

    Free Lutheran Bible College lines up to shake hands after another loss. (Courtesy of Free Lutheran Bible College)Free Lutheran Bible College lines up to shake hands after another loss. (Courtesy of Free Lutheran Bible College)
    Free Lutheran Bible College lines up to shake hands after another loss. (Courtesy of Free Lutheran Bible College) (dds)

    The ultimate test of FLBC’s conviction came about a month ago. Strand hadn’t yet finished his morning coffee when he received an urgent text from the dean of the school.

    “Have you seen this?” Adam Osier wrote, alongside links to the Barstool Sports story ridiculing the FLBC men’s basketball team’s recent futility.

    At first, FLBC administrators were horrified. Two different Barstool Sports podcasts also made fun of the FLBC players. So did commenters on a Reddit thread and on social media.

    What eased the FLBC administration’s concern was the amused response from players when Strand mentioned the negative headlines during a team meeting at his apartment that night. One player was pleasantly surprised to receive any media coverage. Another told Strand that he found it hilarious when the Barstool podcasters cracked jokes about one of his off-target shots.

    “Wait, you laughed?” Strand responded, admittedly caught off guard.

    The coach remembers players reassuring him,”Yeah, we know we’re bad. Who cares? We’re having a good time.”

    Anderson told Yahoo Sports that he found out about the Barstool story when someone shared a link in the team’s text thread. The second-year guard said the players “weren’t mad because it was them giving their opinions purely on what they see.”

    “They don’t know why we play and who we play for (God),” Anderson added. “There is no use in us taking it personally or letting it affect us.”

    That’s not to say that anyone at FLBC wants to see another basketball season like this where its team is so overwhelmingly outgunned every night. Coaches and administrators at FLBC are trying to be more proactive about identifying potential basketball recruits who fit the school’s mission and about informing prospective students that they have the opportunity to play.

    “If we can put together a somewhat competitive team next year, I might try to do that just to buy us a little bit of a reprieve,” Mobley said. “In my role I’m trying to keep a stiff upper lip and I think I’m doing a pretty good job of it, but inside this is driving me nuts.”

    Oddly enough, Strand said, last month’s stories poking fun at FLBC have actually helped the program’s recruiting efforts. Prospective players who otherwise never would have known the tiny bible college existed have emailed Strand about enrolling at FLBC and joining his team.

    To Strand, the inquiries are tempting but risky. On one hand FLBC desperately needs an influx of basketball talent. On the other hand, just a few guys who aren’t attending chapel or taking classes seriously can damage the culture of a college with just 100-plus students.

    “It’s difficult,” Strand said. “There’s a lot of people, especially now after the Barstool story, who have reached out and said, ‘I want to play basketball. I can come this semester. I can do this right now.’ It’s like, yes, but do you understand who we are as an institution? Do you understand that we’re trying to grow you in leadership in church settings? We don’t want to become good at basketball at the expense of the mission of the school.”

  • 60 Fun and Festive Things to Do in December

    December marks the rush and onslaught of a special sort of chaos. Mailboxes are overflowing, cookies are baking away, and guest bedrooms everywhere are being transformed into gift wrapping stations as we speak. But with our holiday rituals to guide the season, we’ve made it our mission to prioritize what matters to us most—and to be okay with leaving the rest. If we’ve learned anything from hectic holidays past, it’s to savor the joyful little moments amidst the mayhem. As we’re planning out our bucket list of things to do in December, that’s exactly the ethos guiding our way.

    So ask yourself: What will make me happy this month? Maybe that’s sipping hot chocolate on the couch or watching The Holiday for the 64th time. (Personally, I’ll be doing both—December is Jude Law season, after all.) In need of inspiration? Keep scrolling for things to do in December every day this month.

    Stockings hanging over the fireplace mantel

    60 Festive Things to Do in December

    The final month of the year sets us in a simultaneous state of looking forward and reflecting on all that the months prior have brought. While we might associate November with gratitude, this time leading up to the end-of-year holidays wraps me in awe—an awareness of all the good that exists around me and all the good I want to share with the world. My intention with this bucket list is to remind us that the holiday magic doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Instead, it’s a result of the generosity, creativity, and warmth we each share in abundance this time of year.

    I’m also focused on the nostalgia and comfort of the holidays. During a season that’s packed with so many obligations, I’m actively choosing to step away from the stress and pencil in more nights that see me cozied up on the couch with my knitting, gazing intently and admiringly at my own twinkly tree.

    Holiday magic doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Instead, it’s a result of the generosity, creativity, and warmth we each share in abundance this time of year.

    So in the spirit of awakening that childlike part of myself, I’m ready to embrace all the gifts present in my life this month. Ahead, I’ve listed out all the best ways to spend the next 31 days. I’ll catch y’all in 2025.

    Things to Do at Home

    1. Do a puzzle. Clear off a dedicated table and pick one with a holiday theme. I’m partial to this merry design or this Christmas-y scene. Gather the fam or take on the challenge all on your own. Is there anything cozier?

    2. Watch all the best classic holiday movies. And when you get through those, be sure to put on a Nancy Meyers film (or watch them all in quick succession). Nothing gets us in the holiday mood quite like a little romance—and beautiful interiors, of course.

    3. Make a festive punch. A big-batch cocktail is a great idea if you’re hosting a party and want to make drinks in advance. That way, you can serve up something delicious and still have some fun yourself.

    4. Wear something sparkly (or velvety, or sequin-y…). Is there anything better than getting dressed up for the holidays? These are our favorite holiday looks.

    5. Host a holiday cookie swap and bake your cookie-loving heart out. Check out our guide to throwing *the best* cookie exchange and all the recipes you need to ensure you’ll be taking home delicious treats.

    6. Have a holiday self-care night. During this season of constant go-go-go, it can be hard to carve out time for yourself. But we’d argue that self-care should be prioritized. Whether that looks like binge-watching movies or wrapping gifts, we’ve got all the holiday self-care ideas you need.

    7. Read a holiday-themed book. While we love books of all genres throughout the year, there’s something about losing yourself in a holiday romance that just feels so perfectly cheery. I’m about to finish Christmas at the Little Paris Hotel, but I’ve heard good things about all of Jenny Bayliss’ books.

    8. Wear the coziest, most Christmas-y pajamas. Bonus points if they match your friends or family’s pair. Shop our favorites.

    9. Decorate your space with the best and merriest decor. From garlands to greenery to advent calendars, break out that box of decorations and go to town—don’t forget about the tree! Steal our go-to DIY holiday decorations.

    10. Send holiday cards. You can make this as big or as small of a to-do as you’d like. If time is running out, a few thoughtful hand-written notes can mean the world.

    11. DIY holiday gifts. It’s the thought that counts, after all. And when you make gifts that folks will treasure for years to come, even better. We’ll be making all of these handmade holiday presents.

    12. Write a letter to your January 2025 self. Make a warm, cozy beverage and sit down to a sheet of blank paper. Pour your heart out to yourself at the beginning of this year. What have you learned? How have you grown? What unexpected things happened in your life?

    13. Put out the advent calendar. This is one of my favorite things to do in December. I have this sweet calendar from Papier and I can’t wait to open up every single gift.

    14. Make monkey bread. This has been my family’s go-to for the holiday season for the past decade-plus. Steal my favorite recipe—it’s like a million mini cinnamon rolls. What’s better than that?

    15. Listen to Christmas music. We’ve made a holiday playlist, in case you need inspiration.

    Things to Do in Your City

    16. Tour your city’s lights. Is there anything better than piling in the car and going on a light-seeing drive? Or, you can opt to bundle up and go on foot. Cities often post the best areas to look at the lights—I love seeing the houses that go all out.

    17. Go ice skating. You don’t have to be a pro (or even know how to stop) to enjoy this classic, never-fails-to-delight winter activity.

    18. Shop small. While we love Amazon in a pinch and are guilty of taking more than a few Target trips every month, there’s something meaningful about browsing the shops in your area and sending loved ones local gifts.

    19. Cozy up at a bar or coffee shop with a fireplace. It feels so quintessentially British to grab a pint, glass of mulled wine, or a coffee and cuddle up with someone you love (or even just a good book).

    20. Go caroling. Many neighborhood organizations and churches coordinate caroling events during December. Sign up with your friends or family and spread the Christmas cheer!

    21. Sip on seasonal drinks at your local coffee shop. I, for one, will be sampling all the chai and peppermint hot chocolate.

    22. See a performance of The Nutcracker. Whether it’s at the high school nearby or a professional show, this makes for the ultimate festive night.

    23. Visit a holiday market. A perfect place to try once-a-year festive foods and pick up thoughtful, creative gifts.

    24. Have a snowball fight. If you’re lucky enough to have snow in your area, relive the golden days of your youth with an epic snowball fight. Sledding’s a great backup plan.

    25. Make gifts for your neighbors. Something small and maybe even edible can help spread some seasonal joy.

    26. Look at the window displays. If you live in a city, the chances are that there’s at least a few stretches of streets that decorate their windows. And you don’t even have to buy anything—just enjoy the view.

    27. Sample holiday food specials. Cafés and restaurants will often have special menu items. Try a gingerbread latte, peppermint ice cream, the list goes on…

    28. Go curling. Many northern US cities are quickly learning just how fun this Canadian favorite can be. Stop by a rink and try your hand at the sport.

    29. Visit a holiday-themed bar. These days, Christmas-themed bars are a dime a dozen. Wear your festive best and enjoy a candy cane martini. (You never know, you might get to see Santa!)

    30. Shop at a toy store for a young relative or neighbor. Make their Christmas dreams come true—and you get to enjoy all the nostalgic decor.

    Things to Do With Friends

    31. Buy ugly sweaters. Goodwill, Target, and thrift stores all have solid options. Designate a day when you all hang out and wear your sweaters—bonus points if you have the confidence to sport them in public.

    32. Take a picture with Santa. Hit up the mall or check local listings to see if there’s a day when Santa will be visiting your city. Without fail, this always ends up being my favorite picture of me and my friends.

    33. Bake a holiday treat with a friend over Zoom. If there’s someone you can’t see this season, be sure to connect virtually and celebrate the cozy vibes together. Linzer cookies, a chocolate cake with a seasonal twist, and a snack cake are all solid options.

    34. Host a gingerbread house decorating party. And if your crew likes a little healthy competition, compete! Prizes go to the most creative, the one you’d actually want to live in, and the best overall. (Psst… Target has gingerbread Target stores for sale. Just sayin’.)

    35. Contribute to the ultimate holiday playlist. Collaborate on a Spotify playlist together. Be sure to include the classics and the newer spins (who doesn’t love a little Michael Bublé?).

    36. Make holiday crafts. Not sure if you’ve heard, but crafting isn’t just for kids! You can DIY wreaths, ornaments, and other décor. Cups of hot cocoa, cider, or wine seal the deal.

    37. Organize a Secret Santa exchange. A White Elephant party works, too. Set a price limit and throw a party dedicated to loving on your pals.

    38. Get a holiday manicure. Make a statement and break out from the expected red or green. Who’s ever said no to a little sparkle?

    39. Make a nostalgic treat. Peppermint bark, puppy chow (or muddy buddies, if that’s how you roll), and slice-and-bake cookies are all fair game.

    40. Make homemade gifts. We have all the ideas you need.

    Things to Do With Your Family

    41. Cut down (or buy) a tree. Venture out into the woods or pick one up at Whole Foods. I won’t lie—I went fake this year and the vibes are still just as festive. See here for all the best faux Christmas trees.

    42. Share your holiday intentions. Is this the year you finally slow down and soak up all the holiday magic? Determine the energy you want to bring into this final month of 2024 and share with your nearest and dearest.

    43. Watch family movies or look through old photo albums. There’s no better time to reflect on the past with those you love.

    44. Read your favorite holiday stories together. May I suggest a few faves? The Snowman, The Polar Express, and The Snowy Day are all worth a read (and many re-reads to follow).

    45. Hide an Elf on the Shelf. If you have little ones, this is a great way to get them in the holiday spirit. Get a little Elf on the Shelf 101.

    46. Adopt a child or family. Many charities and volunteer organizations coordinate gift drives where you “adopt” either a child or family and purchase gifts they’ve shared on their list. This is one of my favorite ways to give back and support my community this season.

    47. Hang stockings. If you already have your own, amazing! But it’s actually easier to make your own stockings than you might think. Scroll through DIY stockings—and prepare to be inspired.

    48. Donate unused coats. Clear out your space and help members of your community keep warm. One Warm Coat is a reputable organization that helps volunteers hold coat drives all over the country.

    49. Do random acts of kindness. While the world can always use some more kindness, the holidays are a great time to spread joy. Get inspired with our list of random acts of kindness you can do today.

    50. Play games. Change into your pajamas and gather by the tree with blankets and pillows galore. Break out your family’s favorite games and get to playing! Check out our recommendations if you’re looking for a new game.

    Things to Do With Your Partner

    51. Cuddle on the couch. With hot chocolate while you watch the tree twinkle in the darkness. So calm, so cozy.

    52. Get dressed up for a holiday party. The time to go big (and sparkly) is now.

    53. Make *or buy* and drink eggnog together. I can say with confidence that the classic beverage is truly disgusting any other month of the year. But in December? Delicious. These are our favorite eggnogs.

    54. Reflect on your year together. What major milestones have you celebrated together this year? Where do you want the next year to take you?

    55. Bake a festive breakfast. I love a good sweet, holiday-themed first meal of the day. Gingerbread cinnamon rolls, breakfast strata, and cranberry orange muffins all evoke the flavors of the season.

    56. Build a snowman, make snow angels, etc. Anything to get you outdoors and feeling like a kid again.

    57. Go dessert hopping. Visit your favorite restaurants and cafés and sample their treats. Who doesn’t love cozying up with something sweet?

    58. Hit the hiking trail. Whether you’re trudging through the snow or just taking advantage of the low-traffic trails, this is a great way to get some exercise and share a memorable experience.

    59. Read your favorite passages from your favorite books to each other. Because December calls us to spend the majority of the darker days indoors, nothing beats cracking open a good book. And nothing helps you get to know someone better than learning their favorite lines. Talk about why you love the passage and what it means to you. Trust me: so romantic.

    60. Volunteer at an animal shelter. You get to cuddle cute animals together while putting a little good out into the world. It’s the ultimate December date.